Monday, March 31, 2025

Weigh in day

 And after a week of high emotions which included lots of chocolate the scales showed me a gain of “only” 400grams. I expected a hell of a lot more than that. Guess exercising 6 days of the week helped there. 

Son, well he still using, still drinking, still living out of his car. Wants to throw his job in and head up north. Says he can get another job 😳 Where or how I don’t know. He has loan repayments for next 4 years as well. He has no qualifications or trade, has a criminal history so wouldn’t get police clearance. All I can see is disaster ahead and him losing everything that he has worked so hard for. Hubby really not impressed with his “stupidity” as he calls it. No, nor am I. He doesn’t want anything to do with him. I think it’s stupidly too, but I want everything to go back to what it was. But that’s not going to happen because he doesn’t want it too. I know he spiralling down hill and not a thing I can do. My heart breaks 💔


The family we were…..

Sister hasn’t seen him, I don’t know if brother knows what’s happening, the little ones are missing him. 


4 comments:

  1. Oh dear, I really feel for you all. It’s very hard when things are out of your control. Is he the one with the beard? I have no history of anything like this, thank goodness, just wishing you all the best. Marie, Melbourne

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    1. No, son is standing next to me. The bearded one is his elder brother.

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  2. My heart goes out to you. How difficult it is to stand helpless watch someone you love so much spiral out of control. Keep your chin up and know that he knows how much you love him.

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  3. I am very sorry. I pray he can get well & I will pray for you to find the strength you need during this very difficult time.

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